Do you suffer from loneliness?
Would you like to share your activities with a friend? Talk for hours about everything and nothing without judgment?
Do you no longer want to stay locked up at the weekend watching TV?
But you are alone, isolated and dream of friendship and complicity. So how do you meet new friends?
It is enough, it is said, to take the lead and go out to meet new people. But it is not easy, difficult to approach others, out of timidity or fear of a possible rejection.
This is where the internet facilitates new friendships, it allows you to wrap yourself in a protective veil that will ease your shyness and your fears.
You are anonymous, you can be yourself and go looking for new friends without fear of judgment. It will be much easier to approach people who interest you online than in real life, because here you have nothing to lose.
Meeting friends online offers a wider range of people to come into contact with, women who have the same aspirations and passions as you, the same experience or just the same timidity.
Your colleague Marie found the love of her life on the internet so why couldn’t you find your best friend there?
To help you in your friendly search on the internet, here are 5 tips for creating new friendships online:
Go beyond received ideas
Friends on the internet are real friends. We must first understand that the internet is only a reflection of reality in a different dimension. The people present on friendly dating sites are very real, it can be your neighbor, your cousin or the best friend of your childhood.
Many (still) mistakenly believe that internet dating is for desperate people. In reality, it is very false. Did you know that 85% of French people have access to the internet and 75% go online every day?
Everyone is present on the internet regardless of level of education, age, ethnicity or social category.
Allow yourself to be happy, take the plunge and find the friend you need to brighten up your life. Do not block yourself out of shame or fear of “falling very low”. You are not the only one, it is the entire population that ends up on friendly dating sites.
Whether you are looking for a real friendship followed, a friend to go out, a virtual correspondent, you will find your happiness on the internet.
Define your friendly search
What are you really looking for? A friend, friends? A close friendship? Punctual? For life?
Above all, you must take stock of what you are really looking for, this will help you to find the best solution for making new friends.
Ask yourself precisely what type of friendship you need, a sincere friend with whom you will spend your days, to share each stage of your life by her side or by phone? A group of friends going out for a drink, to go dancing? An acquaintance to go to the cinema or do another punctual activity from time to time … Would you like one or more female friends?
Find the friendly dating website you need
There are a multitude of websites to meet friends on the internet or at least get to know new people online. You can meet friends according to your religion, ethnicity, profession, ethical values, gender and many others.
It is therefore up to you to take stock of what you want, the type of friends you would like to meet.
As a woman, if you are looking for a friendship only dating website, there is only one female friendly site, Zanmie.com! Why Zanmie? Quite simply because it is the only friendly dating site reserved for women, which avoids the flirtatious and ambiguous side that there can be on mixed friendly dating sites.
Prospect on all the platforms you use
Potential friends are everywhere, just like you, they use all the services that their internet offers.
Here are some other avenues to explore:
– Social networks
Join groups dealing with topics that interest you such as gardening, fashion, animals, nature, feminism, cooking, ecology or sport. We all know that nothing brings us closer than common passions.
– The forums
Today there are forums on all subjects, participate actively and offer once, some agreements made, to meet for a drink.
Also use blog comments, online chat rooms or tweet about topics you are passionate about.