“Consider what you are looking for,” Alexandra Fine, CEO and cofounder of Dame Products and a certified sexologist, recommends. “What type of experience do you want this tool to help you unlock?” Clitoral stimulation, for example, could be something you want to focus on—or maybe penetration’s more your thing.
We talked to sex experts to come up with this list of the 23 best vibrators for women in 2020, whatever your ~vibe~ (lol, get it?). With the guesswork out of the way, you can spend less time online and more time in bed.
- Dame Zee
Dame’s new vibrator, Zee, just launched last November. Instead of silicon, it’s made from a type of silky-smooth plastic called ABS (which, fun fact, Legos are made from), then coated with a soft-touch spray. Why, you ask? Because this thinner material makes room for Zee’s super-powerful motor.
- Bam Bullet
Just here to put yet another bullet vibrator on your radar. The VeDo Bam Bullet has **10** different vibration patterns (huge), and it’s made of soft silicone. While it might be little, this one packs quite the punch. And FYI, certified sex coach and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: a guide to sex, love, and life, Gigi Engle says bullet vibrators are “the best place to start,” since they focus on the glans (aka your clit’s head), which is “where the vast majority of women discover their potential for orgasm and pleasure.”
- We-Vibe Unite
Looking for a toy that you can use with your S.O., too? We-Vibe Unite is perfect for slipping in between you and your partner. It stays put while it pulses, allowing you the freedom to caress yourself elsewhere or keep grinding along with its vibrations. Like to take your time time during sex? That’s totally fine because this lil’ thing can go for up to 60 minutes straight (do people actually last that long? Asking for a friend).
- Le Wand Vibrator
Le Wand is a freakin’ classic, which is why so many experts recommend it as the best vibrator for women. So it’s not the most discreet-looking toy (but, TBH, who cares?). In fact, it’s on the bigger side for a reason. It’s meant to be used all around your clitoris for earth-shattering orgasms, or you can angle part of its head to reach inside you for some internal-type pleasure. It’s got 20 vibration patterns, 10 different speeds (um, r u serious?), and it’s USB rechargeable. Look, it’s called ‘the wand’ for a reason. It’s magic.
- Tiger Vibe G5
Want internal pleasure? Want to reach what your fingers can’t? If so, then the Tiger Vibe G5 might be your perfect match. Shaped like a penis and with a special ringed handle for optimal movement, this vibe is meant for insertion and can reach all the way up to your G-Spot. It’s 100 percent waterproof (perf for taking into baths and showers), and it’s got a rechargeable battery (major key).
- SKYN Vibes Massager
If you’re looking for affordable options, you definitely need to check out the Vibes Massager by SKYN. It comes highly recommended by Engle, who says it’s “super bendy and easy to maneuver.” The best part? It’s versatile. “What’s great is that you can use it for dual stimulation of the clit and G-spot,” she adds. Don’t want penetration? Just use it on your clit, vulva or nipples.
- My First Jack Rabbit
Remember that vibrator that literally kept Charlotte in bed for days in Sex And The City? Well, that’s this guy. Let me introduce you to the My First Jack Rabbit, a tool that stimulates both your G-Spot and clitoris *at the same time*. It’s got little orbs that whirl around while it pulses for increased stimulation, too. Engle says that “vibrators are a tool for female sexual liberation,” and honestly, the rabbit will make you feel liberated as hell.
- Starlet 2
The Womanizer Starlet 2 is Engle’s favorite toy for beginners. “You turn it on, put the nozzle over the glans, and bam, you’re having an orgasm in just a few minutes,” she says. For those of you who’ve never had an orgasm before, Engle says using the Womanizer is “a fabulous way to find out what they feel like without any guesswork.”
- Palma Vibrating Ring
Palma is a super sleek statement piece of jewelry that doubles as a vibrator. Yes, you legit wear it on your finger. Fine says “vibrators that are also jewelry can be incredibly empowering. They allow you to demonstrate in public that you prioritize your pleasure—something to be proud of.” Gently caress your labia and nipples with Palma for a buildup, then push the ring against your clit when you’re ready for explosives.